In love with someone who is committed?
September 11, 2006 by blogs-from-jupiter
I’ve never been into a relationship with someone who is committed. And I will never, and dare attempt to go into one. Complicated relationships are hard to understand, because they are simply complicated.
But hey Jupiter! You will never know until you are into one. You see, once you are in love, regardless whether the person is committed or not, you will move mountains just have to that person.
Been in love a couple of times, and yes, I was a different person. And gosh! I was so bad. I was like possessed when I was in love. But hey! Your girlfriend or boyfriend or husband or wife is not the end all and be all of a happy life. I know that it is so hard when you are too in love.
But falling for someone who is committed is a different story. You have to sacrifice some more, endure more pain, and worst of all, you cannot have the person completely. You are prone to commit more mistakes because of lies, deception and secrets. Whether the person you love, loves you more than his or her real spouse, the reality is he or she had a previous vow. And that vow is sacred, whether it was a mistake! The vow has to be annulled. It has to be voided.
I am not pontificating because I am not the pope. The reality is you can never find real happiness in complicated relationships.